Assisted living tour checklist
Questions about everyday help, staffing, costs and life in an assisted living community or smaller residential care home.
Take this on your visit
Mark questions as you go. Your marks stay on this open page only; they are not saved to your account or shared with providers. Print or save a PDF to keep a copy, including every question and space for handwritten notes.
Ask the home to describe the help it can actually provide. A small home and a larger community may organize care differently.
Before your visit or interview
- Ask the person what matters most to them and choose a few priorities to discuss.
- Bring your own questions and ask which staff member can discuss services and costs.
- Use a separate printed copy for each provider. Leave room for answers and anything to clarify later.
Use these prompts to start a conversation. “Asked” records that you discussed a question; it is not a quality score or confirmation that a provider meets the person's needs. A tour, appearance or length of licensure alone does not establish quality.
Start with these questions
Questions for this care type
Source: Where Can You Receive Care?, U.S. Administration for Community Living (publisher’s page last modified February 18, 2020; checked September 9, 2026)
If you are touring a smaller care home
What to observe and discuss
- Notice how staff introduce themselves, listen and respond when someone asks for help.
- Walk the routes between the actual room, bathroom, dining area and shared spaces; ask about any obstacles.
- Ask to see an ordinary meal or activity and discuss how the person could choose to join or spend time privately.
Source: Where Can You Receive Care?, U.S. Administration for Community Living (publisher’s page last modified February 18, 2020; checked September 9, 2026)
Ask for it in writing
- A sample agreement and an itemized quote, including possible extra charges.
- The proposed services, schedule, limits and process for reviewing changes.
- Contact and complaint procedures, including how to get help outside normal hours.
- Applicable license or certification details and where to find inspection records, when available.
- Notice, cancellation, refund and service-ending terms to review before committing.
After your visit
- Ask the person how the visit felt and compare what you heard with their priorities.
- Write down unanswered questions, promises to confirm and who will follow up by when.
- Discuss questions about clinical needs with the person's qualified care team. Review the written terms and confirm anything unclear before deciding.
Your visit notes
Provider / visit date:
What matters most to the person:
Answers to confirm and questions still to ask:
Next step / who will follow up / by when:
Sources
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- Where Can You Receive Care?, U.S. Administration for Community Living.Publisher’s page last modified February 18, 2020. Checked September 9, 2026.